In a romantic relationship, some people will think they love the other person more while loving themselves; however, I think they desire to take care of that person more than they do themselves in the sense that there's a difference between loving someone and taking care of someone.
This is because although someone may do whatever the other person wants them to do in a relationship, they do it because they desire to please the other person.. So they aren't taking care of themselves as they should but they are taking care of the other person because it pleases them to do so even though they may be doing things that aren't pleasing them.
So at the end of the day, they must love themselves more because they aren't doing self-less deeds and they are doing things for the purpose of pleasing themselves.. This is also true for those who do the same and believe that they don't love themselves.
In order to live a healthier love life, you must learn to take care of yourself first because all the love you possess comes from you and if you can't see that, you will always search for love from other people who may not love you.
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