I consider we can often be underdressed but your can never be overdressed. There is usually a shift in your confidence level when you don't believe you are dressed on a similar level to those around you. When you are what is considered, underdressed, your confidence is lower because you have the perception that you aren't as good as those around you. However, when your look makes you feel you are dressed as someone who is most influential to others, it is a beautiful thing.
People usually either focus on Santa Claus, the gifts they will receive or on Christ's birthday when Christmas comes around. I've realized that whatever we value as Christmas arrives, it is a repetitive focus that often results in the same reoccuring thoughts that never change and often do not help us grow.
I don't wear much makeup because I am confident in knowing I am beautiful just the way I am and I don't need to "make myself up'," yet when it comes to highlighting my features, you will catch me wearing lipstick if nothing else.. Why? Because it draws attention to the powerful words I speak. I believe it gives the perception that whatever I say is more important than it would be without it. But you will have to understand how to use color to your advantage to realize this power of color on your lips.
Besides the fact that you workout and perform activities that require you to dress in a more relaxed manner, having your sloppy dress days are just as important as any other style of dress. The way you dress is a reflection of who you are, how you are feeling at the moment and who you are becoming.
It took me a while to realize this but life is all about relationships and in order to live the life that you truly desire you have know who people are to you. Otherwise you will get lost in focusing on what a relationship isn't providing you instead of seeing how the relationship is helping you become the person you are meant to be.
You hear that you have to choose to be happy and although everyone should desire to be happy, few actually choose to be happy because given the circumstances they're in, it can be very challenging to make that choice when you don't know the outcome of making it. Especially when your decision to be happy can end up making you even more unhappy.
Whenever you get dressed, you should have a purpose for doing so. You are always dressing for yourself whether you realize it or not and you are always dressing for a purpose but understanding your true purpose for getting dressed may take some thinking to understand.
Many people consider a super woman as a woman who is effective at multi-tasking. She takes care of her kids, cooks dinner, goes to work and that is usually the gist of a superwoman. There's nothing wrong with this but it may insinuate that a normal woman is incapable of achieving this or that women in general are incapable of doing anything that takes hard work and dedication so any woman that is capable, is often labeled as a super woman.
Being jealous comes naturally but how you react to your jealousy is your choice.. I know when I graduated from college without a single ideal job offer and no boyfriend that would soon be my husband, not only was I upset that my goals weren't achieved, I was also highly jealous of my friends and people around me who were.. But overtime, I realized that my focus on not having what I want was the very thing that made me jealous and angry.
We hear all the time that we can't love someone else if we don't love ourselves. This always made sense to me but it wasn't until I wrote, "Love's Diary" that I truly understood why. If you consider the perspective of the "living for self" mentality, then you will see why it isn't possible to love someone else if you don't love yourself.