I think it's because we are desiring our life to be far beyond our reality so we don't think it's even possible for us to obtain something that would brings us so much pleasure and therefore it is nothing but a dream and never becomes our reality.
However, if we consider the absolute worse that could happen, wouldn't it be worth it to give it our all and see if we land amongst the stars rather than go through life never knowing and just living a mediocre life? I think it would. You spend year after year deciding what you will get accomplished for the new year but it just never happens and you end another year wishing and hoping that one day all your dreams come true.
The truth is, it is extremely rare for an opportunity to just fall into your lap without ever taking any kind of work prior to receiving that opportunity. Our minds are so powerful that if we train them to our benefit, we will achieve and accomplish these goals. Yes, you have to do the work, as "there is no such thing as a FREE lunch" but if it is truly what you want, this will never be a problem for you.
The most important thing is to let go of your fear and you'll be on the fast track to the success you've been dreaming of. Whether it's getting the job you want, finding your soulmate or doing yoga everyday (that's one of mine), get in the right mindset and believe that you can do anything you want and you'll start to see results.
Yes, money is a necessity to live the life we want to live so you have to think of ways to get what you want done that don't conflict too much with you making money but at the end of the day ask yourself, "If the purpose of me doing this is to pay bills and live the lifestyle that I want, am I even accomplishing that if I'm dreaming about living the life I want?"
WISDOM QUOTE: "if you believe it, then you can conceive it and if you do the work, you can achieve it."
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