Intimacy is a need that requires both emotional and physical closeness to another being. However, we often fail to satisfy that need by seeking it through sex. I believe we experience a sense of powerlessness in sexual intimacy because our mental and physical feelings are much stronger than our logic. As a result, our mind can be submissive to our partner during and after intimacy.
Intimacy is a need that requires both emotional and physical closeness to another being. However, we often fail to satisfy that need by seeking it through sex. I believe we experience a sense of powerlessness in sexual intimacy because our mental and physical feelings are much stronger than our logic. As a result, our mind can be submissive to our partner during and after intimacy.
This seems like a bad thing, but I only consider it negative if your partner has the intention of taking advantage of you or hurting you. Sometimes you both are in love and most times it's just oxytocin taking over. This is where making love and having sex are two completely different things. Making love tends to lead to building a more intimate relationship, while sex temporarily satisfies the need for intimacy and leaves you with mixed emotions and confusion.
I believe this level of intimacy is dangerous to play with and this is why we are so confused about love. We often associate love with sex because of how strongly we feel emotionally and fail to realize all the negative things about the relationship. We are unable to make smarter decisions because our logic is powerless and we are in need of intimacy.
It's hard to know who truly love's you, especially if you've never been in love. So I'm not going to say only share this level of intimacy with someone you love (but if you can, more power to you). I just hope you are selective in who you share this experience with because you deserve to be treated like the queen you are.
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This seems like a bad thing, but I only consider it negative if your partner has the intention of taking advantage of you or hurting you. Sometimes you both are in love and most times it's just oxytocin taking over. This is where making love and having sex are two completely different things. Making love tends to lead to building a more intimate relationship, while sex temporarily satisfies the need for intimacy and leaves you with mixed emotions and confusion.
I believe this level of intimacy is dangerous to play with and this is why we are so confused about love. We often associate love with sex because of how strongly we feel emotionally and fail to realize all the negative things about the relationship. We are unable to make smarter decisions because our logic is powerless and we are in need of intimacy.
It's hard to know who truly love's you, especially if you've never been in love. So I'm not going to say only share this level of intimacy with someone you love (but if you can, more power to you). I just hope you are selective in who you share this experience with because you deserve to be treated like the queen you are.
CREDIT TAGS: Intimacy: The Art Of Relationships Why Women Feel More Attached After Sex Than Men
STYLE TAGS: Svala Lingerie
RELATED POSTS: Being Single Is Not A Bad Thing Is He Buying You? Be Strong, Not Tough Is He Worth It? Do You Stand By Your Standards?
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